What’s more delightful than shopping for a little girl? Their clothing options are fun, frilly, colorful and feminine. However something happens as they start to grow. Much of the clothing changes from feminine and lovely to borderline inappropriate.
Many fashions designed for young girls are over the top. Blame the media or mainstream media the end result is the same – inappropriate clothing. Are their strategies and resources to help your daughter find the fun and fashionable look she desires while still looking her age?
Of course!
How to Find Fun Fashionable Clothing For Your Young Daughter
Embrace child friendly designers and stores. When shopping with your daughter, steer clear of the mainstream stores which tend to sell the big girl clothing. Smaller boutiques and stores which specialize in clothing specifically for little girls will have beautiful clothing for your daughter to choose from.
Let her choose. Sounds scary right? Let your daughter choose her clothing. We’ll I’m not advising giving them the credit card and setting them free in the store, no matter what their age, however you can give them options. When shopping with your daughter in a store or online, choose a few items you approve of and then let your daughter make the final decision. That way she can exercise her freedom and you can make sure the items meet your approval.
Cultivate her style. Each child has their very own sense of style. In fact, it can be amazing to see what they put together sometimes. Encourage your daughter to find items she likes. Have a discussion about what she likes to wear, why she likes certain items and what colors and fabrics she enjoys. Understanding her tastes will help you choose items more to her liking. After all there’s nothing worse than spending a fortune on clothing that your daughter never wears or worse, stuffs under her bed.
Accessorize. Its the little things that sometimes make us feel the best about our appearance. A headband, a fun pair of tights, a fun bangle or necklace can really help a child feel good about how they look. And if your daughter is a hat wearer then they can really have fun with an outfit.
Be a role model. You set an example for your daughter by the clothing you wear. Moms that wear suggestive clothing will find their daughters emulating them. Of course this doesn’t mean you have to wear pink polka dots and a faux fur trimmed hat however children do take their cues from the adults in their life.
Let go. Fill her closet with items she likes, and you approve of, and then let her have control over what she wears. There will likely be days when she walks out of her room wearing jeans and a flowery dress on top or yellow striped tights and a purple dress, smile and tell her she looks colorful and let her go. Little girls love to experiment with clothing, if youre able to fill her wardrobe with items you approve of then you can relax and let her experiment to her hearts content.
Bright colors, fun fabrics and patterns and a little freedom to choose what she likes will help your daughter to look fun and fashionable while still looking like the little girl she is. Find a few child friendly stores and give your daughter a bit of choice, youll both be glad you did.