One of the most stressful things that parents have to deal with, may in fact be dealing with a sick child. You feel like your hands are tied and that there is really not much you can do for them except what the doctor’s tell you, and sometimes that can be extremely frustrating. Here are some of the rules that I have found in dealing with a child who has suddenly become ill or injured and they really have helped. Obviously if it is a life or death crisis then get to the ER as quickly as you can, or call 911.

If it is not a life or death crisis then take a second to breathe and think. Most of the time our initial reaction to our child becoming ill or injured is to rush into action. This is fine if you are going to stop them from bleeding, or start CPR to keep them breathing, however when your child is ill you must think clearly. Many times a watch and wait approach is the best one. Initially when a child becomes sick or injured, they may react as if they are dying, however, this will usually calm down within a few minutes and then just monitor them closely. Make note of their behaviors, eating, sleeping, and breathing. These will more than likely clue you in to whether or not you need to get them to a doctor.

If you feel like something is wrong but you just don’t know what it is, then by all means trust your instincts and seek medical attention as soon as possible. Very rarely are parental instincts wrong.

The head is a part of the body that tends to bleed a lot, so head injuries are likely to bleed freely for a few minutes before they stop. If the child is vomiting, it is important to keep him hydrated, so give him plenty of liquids, sippable through a straw if possible. Ginger ale can be an effective drink because of the calming effects on the stomach that the ginger provides.

Whenever your child gets sick, just keep your head clear and think about the situation. If you keep these things in mind, then you’ll be able to help the situation along more effectively while avoiding any unnecessary panic that can accompany having a sick or injured child.

Having children can be the best experience in a persons life. However it can also be one of the most difficult tasks a person can accomplish. Parenting is a very challenging task and one of the biggest challenges of parenting is keeping your cool, even when your child or children are pushing your buttons. Occasionally we all lose it however, trying to effectively deal with losing it can be a challenge.

To this point, I would like to bring up the woman who was caught on tape spraying her 2 year old daughter with the pressure washer at her local car wash. I guess she just thought that it was water and the child was having a tantrum, so the mother, checked the pressure of the sprayer on her hand, and then proceeded to spray the screaming child down with water from head to toe.

The owner of the car wash saw the videotape and immediately turned the woman in to the police. The mother was arrested, jailed, and eventually convicted of misdemeanor child abuse. She was given a full year of probation and was made to take parenting classes.

The mother still feels that this was merely a form of discipline and was not child abuse, calling to attention the fact that the child was not injured. She does admit that it may have been an error in judgment, and that she probably could have handled the situation in a better way. Most of agree with that assessment.

The issues of child abuse continually need to be addressed and assessed. Although an extreme method of discipline, and probably not the best choice for a two year old, one cant help but wonder if perhaps we are so concerned about the type of punishments that we are giving our kids are causing them to be as defiant and outspoken as they are becoming. Although corporal punishment is thought to be outdated, the truth is that the children from the corporal punishment era did seem to be a lot more driven and a lot less of a problem than the children of today. It just raises the question, are we causing this with our permissive parenting styles, or is this just the difference in the generations?

Unfortunately, there is no manual that teaches parenting. If there was one, the author would likely get rich very quick, because all parents face challenges at one time or another. It is just a fact of life, and it never ceases to amaze.

Actually, there are loads of books available on parenting. And while the advice they offer is often beneficial, none of them have all the answers. They teach parenting skills from every possible angle, but none of the experts seems to realize that what works for one child won’t necessarily work for other children. That is left up to the parent to determine, and it requires some type of categorization of the children. No matter how hard a parent tries, there are always going to be children in the brood that don’t respond to the parenting style.

I always advise parents to read everything they can about parenting. There are books, websites and online chat groups to participate in. I’ve found that interacting online with other parents often provides solutions I hadn’t thought of. The professionals can offer some valuable things, but those techniques and skills will always need to be adapted to different children and their personalities.

When you have a difficult parenting situation, dont be afraid to go online and ask the questions you have. You can get a lot of really great advice from other parents, and they sometimes will provide you with more useful advice than the experts. Why, you may ask? The answer is simple. These are the people in the trenches. They are the ones who are learning by trial and error. Sure they dont have the time to sit and write a book, but still they know the information and they can help you.

Parenting struggles can really wear you down, but dont give up. Use all the resources out there to get the information and support you need. There are some really great information sites that offer you online resources and support at your fingertips. Dont be afraid to ask for help. All parents need help and resources to get through. You are not alone.